Interpersonal skills, made practical
Know exactly what to say when it matters
Word-for-word scripts for the hardest conversations, guides to the interpersonal skills behind them, and a practice partner for rehearsing before the real thing.
What to say
Every scenario gives you the actual sentences, not vague advice. Copy them, adapt them, say them out loud.
What not to say
The common lines that backfire, and why. Most hard conversations go wrong in the first thirty seconds.
Practice dialogues
Short role-play exchanges that show how the conversation actually unfolds, including what to do when they push back.
Scenarios: what to say, word for word
48 specific situations, each with scripts, mistakes to avoid, and a practice dialogue.
Dating, relationships & breakups
Difficult & toxic people
- Emotional Invalidation: How to Respond
- How to Respond to DARVO
- How to Respond to a Narcissist
- How to Respond to a Narcissist Playing Victim
- How to Deal With Toxic People
- How to Deal With Passive-Aggressive People
- How to Deal With Negative People
- How to Deal With a Narcissistic Parent
- How to Deal With a Narcissist Husband
- How to Respond to Gaslighting
- How to Deal With a Narcissist
Comforting & hard conversations
- Words of Comfort
- What to Say When Someone Loses a Parent
- What to Say When Someone Is Sick
- What to Say to Someone With Cancer
- What to Say to Someone Who Is Grieving
- What to Say to Someone Who Had a Miscarriage
- What to Say to Someone in the Hospital
- What to Say to Someone Going Through a Hard Time
- What to Say When Someone Loses a Pet
- What to Say When Someone Dies
- How to Comfort Someone Over Text
Conflict, boundaries & communication
- How to Tell Someone They Hurt Your Feelings
- How to Set Boundaries With Friends
- How to Set Boundaries With Family
- How to Respond to an Apology
- How to Express Your Feelings
- How to Decline an Invitation Politely
- How to Deal With a Messy Roommate
- How to Apologize to Someone You Hurt
- How to Have Difficult Conversations
Work & career conversations
Guides to the skills behind the scripts
18 in-depth guides: boundaries, comforting people, difficult people, presence, and the group practices that build these skills.
Dating, relationships & breakups
Difficult & toxic people
Comforting & hard conversations
Conflict, boundaries & communication
Connection & friendship
Executive presence
Group & relational practices
Reading the script is step one. Saying it out loud is step two.
Interpersonal is building a practice partner: short, realistic role-plays where you rehearse the breakup, the boundary, the apology, or the resignation, and get feedback on how it landed.
Every scenario page ends with the conversation you can practice. Join the waitlist for early access.
About these pages. Every guide and scenario is written by Stephen Cognetta, cites its sources, shows when it was last updated, and avoids clinical or diagnostic claims. If you are in immediate danger or crisis, please contact local emergency services or a crisis line rather than relying on any website.